Relationships are complex because they depend on two individuals’ personalities, needs, and wants. In a committed relationship, we look for something more that could last. While ‘the something’ may differ for different people, at the core, relationships that flourish are those built on unselfish love.
For our guides, we ask questions, listen to people then let wisdom decide. In the American Heritage® Dictionary, Windom is:
~the ability to discern or judge what is true, correct, or lasting, insight
~common sense; good judgment. And
~the sum of learning through the ages, which is knowledge.
Applying Windom in a relationship often requires separating ourselves from the raw emotions of conflict to think clearly and objectively so that wisdom can guide us. We want to avoid the pitfalls where impulsiveness can lead and develop a mutually fulfilling and healthy relationship with an ideal partner. It is the primary aim of our guides.
Along with the guide, we developed the site as an easy place to go without the noise of uncontrollable and conflicting influences intervening in our thoughts. And since we should take our relationship seriously, it’s a place for everyone. Each guide is interactive to help subscribers think through their relationships and make good decisions. The process evolves differently for each person based on how they interpret and use the guide. Along the way, we offer sound advice to help the process.
We use the familiarity of the stop light signal as part of our trademark to help clarify how you feel about a topic when considering your ideal partner. Making good decisions means we can’t be ‘wishy-washy,’ so the signals are a way to categorize your feelings. The guide’s users have reported gaining confidence and clarity to make better relationship decisions and have come out stronger.
The charges for the guide pay for our team and the site’s hosting, and we intend to keep them affordable to everyone. Please support us as we support your relationship decisions.